Trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp v\u00e0 \u1ee9ng x\u1eed kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a m\u1edf ra c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. \u0110\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u00e0i n\u0103ng b\u1ea9m sinh m\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n qua t\u1eebng trang s\u00e1ch. \u0110\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n tr\u00ean h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, Tiki \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ed5ng h\u1ee3p danh s\u00e1ch 15+ cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ed1i nh\u00e2n x\u1eed th\u1ebf hay nh\u1ea5t, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ecdn l\u1ecdc k\u1ef9 l\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m kinh \u0111i\u1ec3n \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i, \u0111\u1ea7y t\u00ednh \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u1eafc Nh\u00e2n T\u00e2m<\/strong> c\u1ee7a Dale Carnegie<\/strong> l\u00e0 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch g\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ea7u gi\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1ec1 ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt giao ti\u1ebfp v\u00e0 \u1ee9ng x\u1eed, \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i v\u00e0 gi\u1eef nguy\u00ean gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb qua nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf h\u1ec7. N\u1ed9i dung s\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng d\u1ea1y b\u1ea1n nh\u1eefng m\u00e1nh kh\u00f3e hay k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt thao t\u00fang, m\u00e0 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u01b0 duy t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong: l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u, quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh. S\u00e1ch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chia th\u00e0nh c\u00e1c ph\u1ea7n r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, \u0111i s\u00e2u v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc v\u00e0ng nh\u01b0 khen ng\u1ee3i, l\u1eafng nghe, v\u00e0 kh\u01a1i g\u1ee3i s\u1ef1 mong mu\u1ed1n \u1edf ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n \u0110i\u1ec3m l\u00e0m n\u00ean s\u1ee9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 t\u00ednh th\u1ef1c ti\u1ec5n v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n minh h\u1ecda s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng. Dale Carnegie<\/strong> ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng, s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 thu ph\u1ee5c l\u00f2ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 t\u1eed t\u1ebf v\u00e0 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh. Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, t\u1eeb sinh vi\u00ean m\u1edbi ra tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o, nh\u1eefng ai mong mu\u1ed1n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o ra \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh.<\/p>\n Thu\u1eadt X\u1eed Th\u1ebf C\u1ee7a Ng\u01b0\u1eddi X\u01b0a<\/strong> c\u1ee7a h\u1ecdc gi\u1ea3 Nguy\u1ec5n Duy C\u1ea7n<\/strong> l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m mang \u0111\u1eadm tri\u1ebft l\u00fd ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0110\u00f4ng, kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u1edbi c\u00e1c s\u00e1ch k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y. Thay v\u00ec \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u00e1c c\u00f4ng th\u1ee9c hay m\u1eb9o giao ti\u1ebfp, t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 \u0111i s\u00e2u v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c tu d\u01b0\u1ee1ng n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m, r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n c\u00e1i “t\u00e2m” \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n ra h\u00e0nh vi \u1ee9ng x\u1eed \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn. Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch b\u00e0n v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n, l\u00f2ng bao dung, c\u00e1ch gi\u1eef m\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc th\u1ecb phi v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn ng\u01b0\u1eddi, d\u00f9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t.<\/p>\n \u0110i\u1ec3m \u0111\u1eb7c s\u1eafc c\u1ee7a s\u00e1ch l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p gi\u1eefa tri\u1ebft h\u1ecdc Nho, L\u00e3o, Ph\u1eadt v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3n t\u00edch, c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n x\u01b0a \u0111\u1ec3 minh h\u1ecda cho t\u1eebng lu\u1eadn \u0111i\u1ec3m. V\u0103n phong c\u1ee7a h\u1ecdc gi\u1ea3 Thu Giang<\/strong> tuy m\u1ed9c m\u1ea1c nh\u01b0ng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc, \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecdc ph\u1ea3i suy ng\u1eabm \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch d\u00e0nh cho nh\u1eefng ai mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecm v\u1ec1 g\u1ed1c r\u1ec5 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea1o l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi, mu\u1ed1n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc thay v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng b\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t.<\/p>\n 7 Th\u00f3i Quen C\u1ee7a Ng\u01b0\u1eddi Th\u00e0nh \u0110\u1ea1t<\/strong> kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ed1i nh\u00e2n x\u1eed th\u1ebf m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n. Stephen R. Covey<\/strong> cho r\u1eb1ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng h\u1eddi h\u1ee3t, m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean c\u00e1c nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc. B\u1ea3y th\u00f3i quen \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y theo m\u1ed9t l\u1ed9 tr\u00ecnh t\u1eeb trong ra ngo\u00e0i: t\u1eeb l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n (th\u00f3i quen 1, 2, 3) \u0111\u1ebfn x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 (th\u00f3i quen 4, 5, 6) v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng l\u00e0 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n (th\u00f3i quen 7).<\/p>\n Trong \u0111\u00f3, c\u00e1c th\u00f3i quen nh\u01b0 “T\u01b0 duy c\u00f9ng th\u1eafng” (Win-Win) v\u00e0 “L\u1eafng nghe \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u, r\u1ed3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u” ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng cho m\u1ecdi t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y c\u00f3 chi\u1ec1u s\u00e2u, \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 chi\u00eam nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh ki\u00ean tr\u00ec. S\u00e1ch ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p cho nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd, l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o, v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai nghi\u00eam t\u00fac tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng.<\/p>\n \u0110\u00fang nh\u01b0 t\u00ean g\u1ecdi, Kh\u00e9o \u0102n N\u00f3i S\u1ebd C\u00f3 \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c Thi\u00ean H\u1ea1<\/strong> l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ea9m nang th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh, cung c\u1ea5p nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 m\u1eb9o giao ti\u1ebfp c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 cho c\u00e1c t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng. Tr\u00e1c Nh\u00e3<\/strong> chia s\u1ebb c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c m\u1edf \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n, c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi, c\u00e1ch t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o, cho \u0111\u1ebfn ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt khen ng\u1ee3i v\u00e0 ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t l\u00f2ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. M\u1ed7i ch\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111i k\u00e8m v\u1edbi c\u00e1c v\u00ed d\u1ee5 minh h\u1ecda d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u, gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecdc c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c.<\/p>\n \u0110i\u1ec3m m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch l\u00e0 t\u00ednh th\u1ef1c chi\u1ebfn cao, t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o “l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o” h\u01a1n l\u00e0 “t\u1ea1i sao”. S\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng \u0111i s\u00e2u v\u00e0o tri\u1ebft l\u00fd m\u00e0 cung c\u1ea5p c\u00e1c c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 s\u1eafc b\u00e9n \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n x\u1eed l\u00fd c\u00e1c t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng giao ti\u1ebfp h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tr\u00f4i ch\u1ea3y v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb, sinh vi\u00ean ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng ai c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 ti, l\u00fang t\u00fang trong giao ti\u1ebfp v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n nh\u1eefng ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, t\u1ee9c th\u00ec.<\/p>\n N\u00f3i Nhi\u1ec1u Kh\u00f4ng B\u1eb1ng N\u00f3i \u0110\u00fang<\/strong> c\u1ee7a V\u01b0\u01a1ng Ph\u00f3ng<\/strong> l\u00e0 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a l\u1eddi n\u00f3i thay v\u00ec s\u1ed1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng. T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh r\u1eb1ng, trong giao ti\u1ebfp, s\u1ef1 s\u00fac t\u00edch, \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang tr\u1ecdng t\u00e2m m\u1edbi l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. S\u00e1ch \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u00e1c nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc v\u00e0 k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c v\u00e0 tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng l\u1ed7i giao ti\u1ebfp ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn nh\u01b0 n\u00f3i d\u00e0i d\u00f2ng, n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m, hay n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecdc nh\u1eadn ra s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 im l\u1eb7ng v\u00e0 l\u1eafng nghe, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn c\u00e1ch d\u00f9ng ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4n ngoan \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng uy t\u00edn v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng. V\u1edbi c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u00e0 c\u00e1c v\u00ed d\u1ee5 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, s\u00e1ch \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t h\u1eefu \u00edch cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f4ng s\u1edf, th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean ph\u1ea3i tham gia c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdp, thuy\u1ebft tr\u00ecnh hay \u0111\u00e0m ph\u00e1n.<\/p>\n Giao Ti\u1ebfp B\u1ea5t K\u1ef3 Ai<\/strong> c\u1ee7a chuy\u00ean gia giao ti\u1ebfp Leil Lowndes<\/strong> cung c\u1ea5p 92 th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt nh\u1ecf nh\u01b0ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong m\u1ecdi cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n. Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i \u1edf l\u1eddi n\u00f3i m\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u0111i s\u00e2u v\u00e0o ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3, t\u1eeb \u00e1nh m\u1eaft, n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1ch b\u1eaft tay. T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 chia s\u1ebb c\u00e1c m\u1eb9o \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ban \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p, c\u00e1ch h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m, hay c\u00e1ch \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p.<\/p>\n \u0110i\u1ec3m h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn c\u1ee7a s\u00e1ch l\u00e0 c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t t\u00ean r\u1ea5t th\u00fa v\u1ecb v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 nh\u1edb, v\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 “N\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi lan t\u1ecfa” hay “M\u1eaft d\u00f5i nh\u01b0 keo”. M\u1ed7i k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch ng\u1eafn g\u1ecdn v\u00e0 \u0111i k\u00e8m v\u00ed d\u1ee5 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n c\u1ea9m nang th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi cho nh\u1eefng ai mu\u1ed1n c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nhanh ch\u00f3ng, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t trong c\u00e1c s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n, bu\u1ed5i ti\u1ec7c hay c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 kinh doanh.<\/p>\n \u0110\u1eebng Bao Gi\u1edd \u0110i \u0102n M\u1ed9t M\u00ecnh<\/strong> l\u00e0 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch kinh \u0111i\u1ec3n v\u1ec1 ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ea1ng l\u01b0\u1edbi quan h\u1ec7 (networking<\/strong>). Keith Ferrazzi<\/strong> cho r\u1eb1ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o t\u00e0i n\u0103ng m\u00e0 c\u00f2n ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0o s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7. \u00d4ng chia s\u1ebb m\u1ed9t tri\u1ebft l\u00fd c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i: networking kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c trao \u0111\u1ed5i danh thi\u1ebfp m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u1eddi h\u1ee3t, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh, d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean s\u1ef1 h\u00e0o ph\u00f3ng v\u00e0 mong mu\u1ed1n gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n S\u00e1ch cung c\u1ea5p nh\u1eefng chi\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn, k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u00e0 duy tr\u00ec c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. V\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3, m\u1ed9t b\u1eadc th\u1ea7y v\u1ec1 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i, cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p cho doanh nh\u00e2n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m kinh doanh, v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p.<\/p>\n EQ \u2013 Tr\u00ed Tu\u1ec7 C\u1ea3m X\u00fac<\/strong> c\u1ee7a Daniel Goleman<\/strong> l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng, l\u00e0m thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 th\u00f4ng minh v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 l\u1eadp lu\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 EQ (Emotional Quotient)<\/strong>, t\u1ee9c kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft, th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, c\u00f2n quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 IQ<\/strong> trong vi\u1ec7c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. S\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch c\u01a1 s\u1edf khoa h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y 5 th\u00e0nh ph\u1ea7n c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i c\u1ee7a tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac.<\/p>\n \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch c\u00f3 t\u00ednh h\u1ecdc thu\u1eadt cao nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ebft theo c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u t\u1ea1i sao m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng theo c\u1ea3m t\u00ednh, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n cung c\u1ea5p ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u0111\u1ec3 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7, l\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. S\u00e1ch d\u00e0nh cho nh\u1eefng ai mu\u1ed1n hi\u1ec3u s\u00e2u v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh, nh\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o.<\/p>\n Hi\u1ec3u V\u1ec1 Tr\u00e1i Tim<\/strong> c\u1ee7a Thi\u1ec1n s\u01b0 Minh Ni\u1ec7m<\/strong> l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh, gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecdc quay v\u1ec1 qu\u00e1n chi\u1ebfu v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u ch\u00ednh t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n m\u00ecnh. T\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m g\u1ed3m 50 b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft ng\u1eafn g\u1ecdn v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u1ea3m x\u00fac quen thu\u1ed9c nh\u01b0 gi\u1eadn h\u1eddn, c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n, ghen tu\u00f4ng, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, b\u00ecnh an. M\u1ed7i b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n t\u00edch s\u00e2u s\u1eafc d\u01b0\u1edbi l\u0103ng k\u00ednh c\u1ee7a Ph\u1eadt gi\u00e1o v\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc, gi\u00fap ta nh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n, ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n V\u1edbi v\u0103n phong nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, gi\u00e0u ch\u1ea5t th\u01a1 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7y l\u00f2ng tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n, cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n t\u00e2m giao, v\u1ed7 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00f2ng. Hi\u1ec3u V\u1ec1 Tr\u00e1i Tim<\/strong> kh\u00f4ng d\u1ea1y b\u1ea1n c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, m\u00e0 d\u1ea1y b\u1ea1n c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m h\u00f2a v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. B\u1edfi khi \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 b\u00ecnh an n\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i, vi\u1ec7c \u1ee9ng x\u1eed v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4n ngoan h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n S\u1ee9c M\u1ea1nh C\u1ee7a Ng\u01b0\u1eddi H\u01b0\u1edbng N\u1ed9i<\/strong> c\u1ee7a Susan Cain<\/strong> l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed9t ph\u00e1, mang l\u1ea1i ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i trong m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 lu\u00f4n \u01b0u \u00e1i s\u1ef1 h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i. T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3, th\u00f4ng qua c\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u khoa h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ebf m\u1ea1nh ri\u00eang bi\u1ec7t nh\u01b0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung s\u00e2u, s\u1ef1 s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o th\u1ea5u c\u1ea3m.<\/p>\n Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 h\u01a1n v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m quan tr\u1ecdng v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ed1i nh\u00e2n x\u1eed th\u1ebf v\u00ec n\u00f3 d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang ta c\u00e1ch t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 khai th\u00e1c s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh t\u1eeb m\u1ecdi lo\u1ea1i t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch.<\/p>\n L\u1eafng Nghe B\u1eb1ng C\u1ea3 Tr\u00e1i Tim<\/strong> l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc t\u1eeb Thi\u1ec1n s\u01b0 Th\u00edch Nh\u1ea5t H\u1ea1nh<\/strong>. \u00d4ng d\u1ea1y r\u1eb1ng, l\u1eafng nghe kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00f4i tai, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1ef1c t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u1eafng nghe s\u00e2u, kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t, v\u1edbi l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb bi \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng kh\u1ed5 \u0111au v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m vui c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. \u00c1i ng\u1eef, hay l\u1eddi n\u00f3i y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u1ea3y sinh t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 l\u1eafng nghe ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p th\u1ef1c t\u1eadp \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u01b0 th\u1edf trong ch\u00e1nh ni\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n trong cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n. V\u1edbi ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb v\u00e0 \u1ea5m \u00e1p, t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m n\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng v\u1ec1 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p: s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u c\u1ea3m. S\u00e1ch d\u00e0nh cho b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai mu\u1ed1n ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111ang r\u1ea1n n\u1ee9t ho\u1eb7c mu\u1ed1n n\u00e2ng cao kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n T\u00e2m L\u00fd H\u1ecdc \u0110\u00e1m \u0110\u00f4ng<\/strong> c\u1ee7a Gustave Le Bon<\/strong> l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m kinh \u0111i\u1ec3n, ph\u00e2n t\u00edch c\u00e1ch h\u00e0nh vi v\u00e0 t\u01b0 duy c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n thay \u0111\u1ed5i khi h\u1ecd h\u00f2a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng. Le Bon<\/strong> cho r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t “t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n” ri\u00eang, th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng theo c\u1ea3m t\u00ednh, d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb k\u00edch \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng suy lu\u1eadn logic. Vi\u1ec7c th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng quy lu\u1eadt t\u00e2m l\u00fd n\u00e0y gi\u00fap ta l\u00fd gi\u1ea3i nhi\u1ec1u hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c tr\u00e0o l\u01b0u tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i.<\/p>\n D\u00f9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ebft t\u1eeb th\u1ebf k\u1ef7 19, nh\u1eefng ph\u00e2n t\u00edch trong s\u00e1ch v\u1eabn c\u00f2n nguy\u00ean gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb. \u0110\u1ecdc cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o h\u01a1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng tin v\u00e0 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng lan truy\u1ec1n, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o, nh\u00e0 qu\u1ea3ng c\u00e1o t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f4ng ch\u00fang. S\u00e1ch ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m trong l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng, marketing, ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ai quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i h\u1ecdc.<\/p>\n Phi L\u00fd Tr\u00ed<\/strong> c\u1ee7a Dan Ariely<\/strong> l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn thu\u1ed9c l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c kinh t\u1ebf h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh vi, ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u00e1c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch phi l\u00fd tr\u00ed, tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn t\u01b0\u1edfng. T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n h\u00e0ng lo\u1ea1t th\u00ed nghi\u1ec7m th\u00fa v\u1ecb \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng minh c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi c\u00e1c y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 nh\u01b0 hi\u1ec7u \u1ee9ng m\u1ed3i, n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t, hay s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 mi\u1ec5n ph\u00ed.<\/p>\n Hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c phi l\u00fd tr\u00ed n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ti\u00eau d\u00f9ng th\u00f4ng minh h\u01a1n, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p, kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c. T\u1ea1i sao m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb l\u1ea1i h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn h\u01a1n l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb kh\u00e1c? Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y s\u1ebd cho b\u1ea1n c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi, r\u1ea5t h\u1eefu \u00edch cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m marketing, b\u00e1n h\u00e0ng v\u00e0 qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd.<\/p>\n \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu cho c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9, m\u1ed9t c\u1ea9m nang th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh v\u1ec1 giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i. Adele Faber<\/strong> v\u00e0 Elaine Mazlish<\/strong> cung c\u1ea5p nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3, \u0111\u1ea7y l\u00f2ng tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n \u0111\u1ec3 thay th\u1ebf cho vi\u1ec7c la m\u1eafng, ra l\u1ec7nh hay ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch. S\u00e1ch h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn c\u00e1ch l\u1eafng nghe \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, c\u00e1ch di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch s\u1ef1 h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c thay v\u00ec \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ea7u.<\/p>\n \u0110i\u1ec3m \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a s\u00e1ch l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng m\u1ea9u truy\u1ec7n tranh minh h\u1ecda sinh \u0111\u1ed9ng, gi\u00fap cha m\u1eb9 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u00ecnh dung v\u00e0 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt v\u00e0o th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf. D\u00f9 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 cha m\u1eb9 – con c\u00e1i, c\u00e1c nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc trong s\u00e1ch ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n giao ti\u1ebfp trong m\u1ecdi m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 kh\u00e1c, b\u1edfi c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u c\u1ea3m.<\/p>\n M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 l\u00e0m gi\u00e0u, Ngh\u0129 Gi\u00e0u v\u00e0 L\u00e0m Gi\u00e0u<\/strong> c\u1ee7a Napoleon Hill<\/strong> l\u1ea1i ch\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ef1ng nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ed1i nh\u00e2n x\u1eed th\u1ebf. M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh l\u00e0 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a “Nh\u00f3m Tr\u00ed Tu\u1ec7 \u01afu T\u00fa” (Mastermind<\/strong>). Napoleon Hill<\/strong> cho r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng l\u1edbn m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh, m\u00e0 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c, h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 v\u00e0 h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng ch\u00ed h\u01b0\u1edbng.<\/p>\n \u0110\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng v\u00e0 duy tr\u00ec m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp, s\u1ef1 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n, v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng l\u00f2ng tin. Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y v\u1ec1 t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c duy tr\u00ec th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec theo \u0111u\u1ed5i m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau \u2013 nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 thu h\u00fat ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c m\u00e0 c\u00f2n thu h\u00fat nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00e0i n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch cho nh\u1eefng ai c\u00f3 kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng l\u1edbn v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c t\u1eadp th\u1ec3.<\/p>\n \u0110\u1ec3 h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng \u1ee9ng x\u1eed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n nh\u1ea5t, vi\u1ec7c l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u00e0 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng quan tr\u1ecdng. T\u1ea1i Tiki, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i cam k\u1ebft mang \u0111\u1ebfn cho b\u1ea1n tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m mua s\u1eafm an t\u00e2m v\u00e0 ti\u1ec7n l\u1ee3i:<\/p>\n N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u, \u0110\u1eafc Nh\u00e2n T\u00e2m<\/strong> c\u1ee7a Dale Carnegie l\u00e0 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng. Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch cung c\u1ea5p nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc giao ti\u1ebfp n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng, d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng cao trong h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t t\u01b0 duy \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111i v\u00e0o c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng chuy\u00ean s\u00e2u h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n \u0110\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng. \u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ecdc l\u01b0\u1edbt \u0111\u1ec3 n\u1eafm t\u1ed5ng quan. Sau \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1ecdc k\u1ef9 t\u1eebng ch\u01b0\u01a1ng, ghi ch\u00fa l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u00e2m \u0111\u1eafc v\u00e0 l\u00ean k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3. Quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh: h\u00e3y ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t ho\u1eb7c hai nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y trong m\u1ed9t tu\u1ea7n, sau \u0111\u00f3 r\u00fat kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c v\u1edbi c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n S\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y, th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng, k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt v\u00e0 chi\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111o l\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, mang t\u00ednh th\u1ef1c chi\u1ebfn cao. Trong khi \u0111\u00f3, s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 Vi\u1ec7t Nam, nh\u01b0 h\u1ecdc gi\u1ea3 Nguy\u1ec5n Duy C\u1ea7n, th\u01b0\u1eddng mang \u0111\u1eadm m\u00e0u s\u1eafc tri\u1ebft l\u00fd ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0110\u00f4ng, nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh vi\u1ec7c tu d\u01b0\u1ee1ng \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c, nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 g\u1ed1c r\u1ec5 c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi h\u00e0nh vi \u1ee9ng x\u1eed kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o. Vi\u1ec7c k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p c\u1ea3 hai d\u00f2ng s\u00e1ch s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n C\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed1i nh\u00e2n x\u1eed th\u1ebf l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh d\u00e0i \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng. M\u1ed7i cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch trong danh s\u00e1ch tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea7y, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh qu\u00fd gi\u00e1, m\u1edf ra nh\u1eefng g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn v\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p kh\u00e1c nhau \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean tinh t\u1ebf h\u01a1n trong giao ti\u1ebfp v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng h\u01a1n trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7. Hy v\u1ecdng r\u1eb1ng qua nh\u1eefng g\u1ee3i \u00fd t\u1eeb Tiki, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho m\u00ecnh cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ea7y \u00fd ngh\u0129a n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp v\u00e0 \u1ee9ng x\u1eed kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a m\u1edf ra c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. \u0110\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u00e0i n\u0103ng b\u1ea9m sinh m\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n qua t\u1eebng trang s\u00e1ch. \u0110\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":26,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-103418","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-review-sach"},"yoast_head":"\n2.1.2. Thu\u1eadt X\u1eed Th\u1ebf C\u1ee7a Ng\u01b0\u1eddi X\u01b0a \u2013 Nguy\u1ec5n Duy C\u1ea7n (Thu Giang)<\/h4>\n
2.1.3. 7 Th\u00f3i Quen C\u1ee7a Ng\u01b0\u1eddi Th\u00e0nh \u0110\u1ea1t \u2013 Stephen R. Covey<\/h4>\n
2.2. Nh\u00f3m s\u00e1ch k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c chi\u1ebfn \u2013 C\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 s\u1eafc b\u00e9n trong giao ti\u1ebfp<\/h3>\n
2.2.1. Kh\u00e9o \u0102n N\u00f3i S\u1ebd C\u00f3 \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c Thi\u00ean H\u1ea1 \u2013 Tr\u00e1c Nh\u00e3<\/h4>\n
2.2.2. N\u00f3i Nhi\u1ec1u Kh\u00f4ng B\u1eb1ng N\u00f3i \u0110\u00fang \u2013 V\u01b0\u01a1ng Ph\u00f3ng<\/h4>\n
2.2.3. Giao Ti\u1ebfp B\u1ea5t K\u1ef3 Ai \u2013 Leil Lowndes<\/h4>\n
2.2.4. \u0110\u1eebng Bao Gi\u1edd \u0110i \u0102n M\u1ed9t M\u00ecnh \u2013 Keith Ferrazzi<\/h4>\n
2.3. Nh\u00f3m s\u00e1ch ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong<\/h3>\n
2.3.1. EQ \u2013 Tr\u00ed Tu\u1ec7 C\u1ea3m X\u00fac \u2013 Daniel Goleman<\/h4>\n
2.3.2. Hi\u1ec3u V\u1ec1 Tr\u00e1i Tim \u2013 Minh Ni\u1ec7m<\/h4>\n
2.3.3. S\u1ee9c M\u1ea1nh C\u1ee7a Ng\u01b0\u1eddi H\u01b0\u1edbng N\u1ed9i \u2013 Susan Cain<\/h4>\n
2.3.4. L\u1eafng Nghe B\u1eb1ng C\u1ea3 Tr\u00e1i Tim \u2013 Th\u00edch Nh\u1ea5t H\u1ea1nh<\/h4>\n
2.4. Nh\u00f3m s\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng trong c\u00e1c b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3<\/h3>\n
2.4.1. T\u00e2m L\u00fd H\u1ecdc \u0110\u00e1m \u0110\u00f4ng \u2013 Gustave Le Bon<\/h4>\n
2.4.2. Phi L\u00fd Tr\u00ed \u2013 Dan Ariely<\/h4>\n
2.4.3. N\u00f3i Sao Cho Tr\u1ebb Ch\u1ecbu Nghe, Nghe Sao Cho Tr\u1ebb Ch\u1ecbu N\u00f3i \u2013 Adele Faber & Elaine Mazlish<\/h4>\n
2.4.4. Ngh\u0129 Gi\u00e0u v\u00e0 L\u00e0m Gi\u00e0u \u2013 Napoleon Hill<\/h4>\n
3. B\u1ea3ng so s\u00e1nh nhanh c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ea7u s\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i nh\u00e2n x\u1eed th\u1ebf n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt<\/h2>\n
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\n \nT\u00ean s\u00e1ch<\/th>\n T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3<\/th>\n Phong c\u00e1ch<\/th>\n \u0110i\u1ec3m n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt ch\u00ednh<\/th>\n \u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p nh\u1ea5t<\/th>\n<\/tr>\n<\/thead>\n \n \u0110\u1eafc Nh\u00e2n T\u00e2m<\/strong><\/td>\n Dale Carnegie<\/td>\n Kinh \u0111i\u1ec3n, th\u1ef1c ti\u1ec5n<\/td>\n Nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc giao ti\u1ebfp n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng, v\u01b0\u1ee3t th\u1eddi gian<\/td>\n M\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n \n Thu\u1eadt X\u1eed Th\u1ebf C\u1ee7a Ng\u01b0\u1eddi X\u01b0a<\/strong><\/td>\n Nguy\u1ec5n Duy C\u1ea7n<\/td>\n Tri\u1ebft l\u00fd ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0110\u00f4ng<\/td>\n Tu d\u01b0\u1ee1ng n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m, r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch<\/td>\n Ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u00edch tri\u1ebft h\u1ecdc, t\u00ecm chi\u1ec1u s\u00e2u<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n \n 7 Th\u00f3i Quen C\u1ee7a Ng\u01b0\u1eddi Th\u00e0nh \u0110\u1ea1t<\/strong><\/td>\n Stephen R. Covey<\/td>\n H\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng, nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc<\/td>\n Ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n t\u1eeb trong ra ngo\u00e0i<\/td>\n L\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o, qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd, ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau l\u1edbn<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n \n Kh\u00e9o \u0102n N\u00f3i S\u1ebd C\u00f3 \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c Thi\u00ean H\u1ea1<\/strong><\/td>\n Tr\u00e1c Nh\u00e3<\/td>\n Th\u1ef1c chi\u1ebfn, k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng<\/td>\n Cung c\u1ea5p m\u1eb9o v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng th\u1ee9c giao ti\u1ebfp c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3<\/td>\n Sinh vi\u00ean, ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n giao ti\u1ebfp nhanh<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n \n EQ \u2013 Tr\u00ed Tu\u1ec7 C\u1ea3m X\u00fac<\/strong><\/td>\n Daniel Goleman<\/td>\n Khoa h\u1ecdc, ph\u00e2n t\u00edch<\/td>\n Hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/td>\n L\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o, nh\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, ph\u1ee5 huynh<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n \n Hi\u1ec3u V\u1ec1 Tr\u00e1i Tim<\/strong><\/td>\n Minh Ni\u1ec7m<\/td>\n Ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh, chi\u00eam nghi\u1ec7m<\/td>\n Quay v\u1ec1 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a c\u1ea3m x\u00fac n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m<\/td>\n Ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n t\u00ecm s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh an, ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n \n S\u1ee9c M\u1ea1nh C\u1ee7a Ng\u01b0\u1eddi H\u01b0\u1edbng N\u1ed9i<\/strong><\/td>\n Susan Cain<\/td>\n Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u, truy\u1ec1n c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng<\/td>\n T\u00f4n vinh v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t huy th\u1ebf m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i<\/td>\n Ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ai l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u00f9ng h\u1ecd<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n \n \u0110\u1eebng Bao Gi\u1edd \u0110i \u0102n M\u1ed9t M\u00ecnh<\/strong><\/td>\n Keith Ferrazzi<\/td>\n Chi\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3c, k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i<\/td>\n Ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ea1ng l\u01b0\u1edbi quan h\u1ec7 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh<\/td>\n Doanh nh\u00e2n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m kinh doanh<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n 4. Mua s\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i nh\u00e2n x\u1eed th\u1ebf ch\u00ednh h\u00e3ng, giao nhanh t\u1ea1i Tiki<\/h2>\n
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5. C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p (FAQ)<\/h2>\n
5.1. N\u00ean b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i nh\u00e2n x\u1eed th\u1ebf t\u1eeb cu\u1ed1n n\u00e0o?<\/h3>\n
5.2. L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecdc v\u00e0 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng s\u00e1ch k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3?<\/h3>\n
5.3. S\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i nh\u00e2n x\u1eed th\u1ebf c\u1ee7a t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 Vi\u1ec7t Nam v\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i c\u00f3 g\u00ec kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t?<\/h3>\n
6. K\u1ebft lu\u1eadn<\/h2>\n